ceremony guidance 2025-09-11T11:32:24Z

My palms were sweating as I stared at the sacred fire pit, the scent of sandalwood and ghee thick in the humid air. Tomorrow was my niece’s upanayana ceremony, and I’d foolishly volunteered to lead the rituals despite barely remembering my own thread ceremony two decades ago. Relatives had flown in from three continents, their expectant eyes already weighing on me like stone garlands. When Aunt Priya handed me a printed manual thicker than our family genealogy, panic clawed up my throat – every